I need to count my blessings

I just had a 'talk' with Mark. Not that we discussed a lot (well we did and we didn't ~ if that makes sense) and I still believe that 'talking' is a swear word! Mark has suggested that I actually write a list of pros and cons I guess you could say. I can't remember the exact words he used. So I will write one, eventually.. .. and count my blessings & curses. Who knows maybe it will help